Star*Mate Composite
Report for
Hillary Rodham
Clinton
and
Bill Clinton
Birth Data for Hillary
Rodham:
Hillary Rodham Clinton
October 26, 1947
8:00 PM
Chicago, Illinois
Birth Data for Bill:
Bill Clinton
August 19, 1946
8:51 AM
Hope, Arkansas
Chapter 1: Important
Issues and Themes in your Relationship
"Intimate
relationships cannot substitute for a life plan. But to have
any meaning or viability at all, a life plan must include intimate
relationships." Harriet Lerner
Every
relationship is as individual, as are its participants! This
chapter looks
at the very bedrock of your relationship and identifies what
your potential is when you are together. Each relationship
has issues that need to be dealt with on an ongoing basis and
different ways of dealing with them. There are also certain
areas of life within which individuals find themselves when
they are together. If the essence of a relationship is
healthy and positive, there is nothing that you cannot accomplish
in life and then the relationship is self-renewing and fulfilling. It
is important to identify what in essence you have together
that you can then build on. Then everything else is bonus!
Sun in 2nd
or 8th house in composite chart:
You will be incredibly secure in this relationship and may
focus a lot of attention on creating security, whether that
is material or spiritual. Your loyalty
towards the relationship is unquestioned and you will have a practically sustainable
relationship. The only weakness if you can call it one, is that if you
are under pressure to change due to other factors in the chart or current stresses,
you may find it hard to let go or move on. Whichever person appears to
be the more active partner may identify much more with the stabilizing and
secure strength, when you are together.
Moon in 3rd
or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship needs to be given a lot of personal room
to grow and move. Personal
communication is integral in keeping the two of you thriving together and there
is a strong need to explore and connect emotionally with your environment. You
feel sustained by understanding what your emotional needs mean and how to supply
them. You may have many people connected to you both and this helps you
to feel good about being involved in this relationship. Whichever person
appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with the personal
connecting and communicating strength, when you are together.
Sun Conjunct
Mercury:
You both like to communicate and explore your world. It is easy to understand
each other and you identify with the stimulus of ideas and networks. Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this
intellectual and communicative aspect, when you are together.
Sun Semisextile
Venus:
You are easily able to love each other and both share the same
taste and style. You are also aware of what motivates you both
in the love and sharing department. Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this
ease of love, when you are together.
Sun Semisextile
Chiron:
Your instincts are in harmony with this relationship’s purpose. You
value each other’s vulnerability and understand what is behind it. Whichever
person appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this
healing effect, when you are together.
Sun Semisquare
Pluto:
Your use of power will come into conflict with the relationship’s purpose. You
will be forced to act to resolve any disempowerment issues. Whichever person
appears to be the more active partner may identify with this challenge, when
you are together.
Moon Opposition
Venus:
You like to express your love for each other and may care for
others too, within your personal relationship. You have so much love to give that everyone
will definitely benefit. You feel comfortable with those who share your
taste in beauty and art. Whichever person appears to be the more receptive
partner may identify much more with this love of beauty, when you are together.
Moon Sextile
Uranus:
You have opportunities to feel free whilst connected emotionally
with each other. Friends may assist you to explore your
sense of independence whilst still relating to each other.
Whichever person appears to be the more receptive
partner may identify much more with this freedom of emotional expression, when
you are together.
Moon Sesquiquadrate Mars:
There may be underlying tensions between your desires and how
comfortable you feel with each other. Others may appear
to trigger this; however you will need to resolve them by mutually
agreeing on appropriate outlets for your
passions and how to get your needs met within the relationship. Whichever person
appears to be the more receptive partner may identify much more with these
aggressive tensions, when you are together.
Chapter 2: How
You Complement One Another
"Passion makes
the world go round. Love just makes it a safer place." Ice
T, The Ice Opinion
It feels like
a kind of magic when people are attracted to each other, about
which we can only wonder. If it is not there, we are
not drawn to continue connecting with each other. Depending
on the strength and quality of this attraction it is easy,
delightful or compulsive to connect. When we are in a
long term relationship with someone it provides a pull that
brings us back together through more difficult times. It
is the desire adhesive that sticks us together; otherwise we
would easily drift away from each other due to all the pressures
of modern life. This magnetism, lack of it or repulsion
is the subtle energy that binds us, or not, in relationship
with others. That attraction can comprise of sexual desire,
physical appreciation and feelings of love and warmth that
are easily accessible. It helps us make the compromises
that are necessary in any partnership and encourages our collaborating
and co-operating with one another. As a result it is
an extremely important factor in the fate and enjoyment of
any kind of relationship.
Venus in 3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
You easily communicate your loving thoughts to each other and
enjoy a freedom of movement both in ideas and travel within
this relationship. You will
definitely learn about love together and the higher meaning of love is extremely
important. This position does not guarantee longevity, unless other factors
in the chart allude to that, but it definitely will be interesting and stimulating
to interact with each other and others that you know together. At the
very least you will be good friends.
Mars in 2nd
or 8th house in composite chart:
This could be a highly sexual relationship where a lot of value
is placed on your physical expression. You will both put a lot of energy towards making
sure that your security needs are taken care of, as in earning money and accumulating
possessions. However you also need to be careful that this focus on sex
or money doesn’t also bust the relationship apart. The expression
of your desire energy is important as long as it serves the relationship.
Venus Conjunct
Chiron:
You are instinctively drawn to each other and being together
touches you in a very vulnerable way. As a result you will automatically help each other
to heal any wounds around love from past relationships. You will learn
a lot about loving from being together. The physical side of your relationship
will be important in expressing your love for each other.
Venus Semisextile
Mercury:
You are able to speak lovingly to each other as you both value
harmony and each other’s ideas and styles of communication. You are also aware
of what motivates each other’s ideas about love and how that can affect
the way you speak and your ideas. You may both have similar tastes aesthetically
as well.
Mars Sextile
Jupiter:
You have great opportunities to maintain your strong and positive
energies, both sexually and for work. You tend to inspire and encourage each other
in these areas. Others may support you in being so optimistic and confident
as well.
Mars Semisextile
Saturn:
You are easily consistent and stable with your energies, both
sexual and work wise, as you have a high value on the structure
and routine that you have set
up together. You are also in touch with what motivates your security
needs.
Mars Semisextile
Neptune:
You can easily intuit each other’s sexual and energetic needs, as you
value the subtle link that you have together. You also know what motivates
the fantasy side of your sexual relationship which helps.
Asc. Conjunct
Saturn:
This relationship is long term and values safety, trust and
stability. Whether
this is committed romantic relationship or business, structure will no doubt
be the foundation of your interactions. Clarity of roles and responsibilities
will be of premium value here too!
Asc. Conjunct
Pluto:
This is a very intense, life transforming relationship! You
need to focus on Love and not allow it to degenerate into a
battle of wills. As long as
you keep your hearts open and don’t try to manipulate each other, you
will find that you will feel incredibly powerful together. It can also
empower you both to be a force to be reckoned with and others will acknowledge
the power of the relationship.
MC Opposition
Jupiter:
This is an incredibly significant and strongly blessed relationship! You
will instantly feel that the world is a better place by being together. Opportunities
and expansion are central to this relationship and there is just a very positive
sense of confidence in what you can achieve together. You will both benefit
from this relationship.
MC Square Saturn:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges
to its core from your individual security needs. You will need to work on trust in
each other and maintaining stability within the relationship. You will
need to keep a balance between your issues around loyalty and commitment and
what will contribute to stability within the relationship and this should make
for a healthy relationship.
MC Square Pluto:
This relationship, although significant will experience challenges
to its core from overuse of willpower and control! There may be a conflict with the
intensity of the connection and your individual power drives. You will
need to keep a balance between your love and respect for each other and the
transforming quality of the relationship and this should make for a healthy
relationship.
MC Trine Mars:
This is a significant relationship as your energy and sexuality
flow easily with the integrity and core of the relationship. You can work together
in projects, exercise and work. You both are able to get your needs met
through this relationship. This also makes for a very strong sexual attraction,
if it is that sort of relationship.
MC Quincunx
Neptune:
This is a significant soul relationship but you will need to
be creative in working with the intuitive link between you. There may be challenges
between the integrity and core of the relationship and your boundary keeping. You
will both value the soul connection that is possible and understand what is
motivating that. Others may acknowledge and benefit from this empathic
experience that exists within this relationship.
MC Semisquare
Uranus:
Although a significant relationship, there will be some conflict
with the integrity and core of this relationship and your needs
for individual freedom and expression. You
will be forced to act to resolve this in a positive manner within the relationship.
Chapter 3: How
You Communicate
"Listen.
Do not have an opinion while you listen because frankly, your
opinion doesn’t hold much water outside of Your Universe.
Just listen. Listen until their brain has been twisted like
a dripping towel and what they have to say is all over the
floor." Hugh Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, 02-14-2003
"When
in doubt, tell the truth." Mark Twain (1835 - 1910)
The bridge
that links us as individuals and saves us from our isolation
is communication and so it is a key piece to any relationship. The
good news is that anyone can learn communication skills if
they are interested in bridging that gap. One of the
main skills is listening, and of course we can listen not only
with our ears but on all levels. And the other key skill
is truth telling. These two basic keys are the best foundation
for any kind of good relationship and guarantee that you can
continue to grow and develop together.
In some relationships we easily develop good communication
patterns but in others there are inherent stresses or resistances
to healthy sharing on this
level. We then have to work harder to maintain optimum communication
levels. So when starting any new relationship, it would bode us well
if we are initially challenged, to be realistic about how much effort will
need to be expended in developing consciousness and healthy habits for the
future relationship. Then we can choose whether this is worthy of our
effort or not.
Be forewarned that the largest common cause of relationship breakdown is when
there is a breakdown in communication. Then the bridge that everything
else must cross to link us has fallen into the crevasse between us. Bringing
consciousness to this area in all your relationships will pay off dividends
with healthy, happy and flourishing connections with others.
Mercury in 2nd or 8th house in composite chart:
Your thoughts and communications hinge around stability and
security within this relationship. You value talking things through and sharing very
deep thoughts & feelings, so this promotes a deep intimacy. Your
ideas also promote trust in each other and build a strong foundation for the
relationship. You value learning and may share books as well as discussions. Movement
is of value to you both, so you may find it helpful to establish regular times
to get together to update each other on your daily lives.
Mercury Semisextile
Chiron:
You value the instinctual ideas and conversations that you
share and are also aware of the origins of your human vulnerabilities. As
a result you are able to understand each other in a balanced
way: body and mind.
Mercury Semisquare
Pluto:
There will be a conflict between how you think and communicate
and your need for control. You will be forced to act to resolve any problems caused
by lack of real intimate and honest exchanges. Any compromises you make
will ensure that the profundity of your ideas and conversations will support
each other!
Chapter 4: Challenges
to Relating
"I love
being married. It's so great to find that one special person
you want to annoy for the rest of your life." Rita Rudner
In some cases the challenges to relating are easily transformed
and then integrated and in others they feel more like stumbling
towards the eventual collapse of the relationship! Challenges
in life can be important to help us remain conscious in our
participation with each other, rather than falling into a state
of unconscious participation that allows our complexes full
expression! However there is a middle line, a relationship
cannot be all about work, but needs an element of relaxation
so that we can rest and restore ourselves whilst together. If
this place of refuge is not available then we cannot and will
not persist with the development of a mature relationship. So
it is important that any relationship is not overburdened with
challenges and lacking any ease, joy and fun.
There are many kinds of challenges within relationships; these
occur mainly in the areas of communication, sexuality, finances,
security and trust to name
just a few. All these challenges can be alleviated and bridged through
clear communication. Trust can be established if you know that both parties
are committed to growing the relationship. That is the foundation underneath
any relationship, the willingness to go the distance through good times or
bad, so that when life intervenes to ‘spoil our fun’ we have tools
and a sense of perseverance to persist.
It is up to the individuals whether the challenges within their relationships
are workable and ultimately elevating or whether they are more trouble than
they are worth.
Saturn in 6th or 12th house in composite chart:
This is a strong healing or service oriented relationship and you will work
hard together for those purposes. There is probably some sort of inequality
and that can be good for employee/employer or guru/student relationships. This
could also be a very healing connection but does not show a relationship of
equals. There is something greater than your individual egos working
to keep you together. You have some lessons that need to be learned whilst
working in this relationship and therefore a sense of loyalty or commitment
is strong. It is important not to take advantage of the inequality of
the relationship and try to control each other through service or health issues.
Saturn Conjunct Pluto:
This relationship has a core strength that can survive very difficult times. There
is also a tendency to put a lid on any instinctual movement within the relationship. One
or both may identify with control and though you can rely on the bare bones
of this relationship, there may be problems fleshing these out with joie de
vivre and love!
Saturn Square Jupiter:
You may find obstacles to your sense of exploration and adventure within this
relationship. Fear and insecurity may limit your ability to grow and
learn from each other. You are challenged to balance both your need to
expand with a sense of stability and structure.
Saturn Sextile Neptune:
You have opportunities to define your individual boundaries within the structure
of this relationship. Your spiritual, subtle connection can support the
trust that you feel together. Others may facilitate these experiences
for both of you.
North Node in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
You will feel drawn to build a structure together, whether that is family and
home or a business. You will identify with certain roles as individuals
within this relationship. Within the context of these roles and the structure
that you build together, you will discover the areas that need to be developed
or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These lessons
will tend to be focused on home, family, career and your roles in the world.
True Node Square Mars:
Your destined activities and sexual expression may be in conflict with your
needs. There may be disharmony in getting both your needs met and there
may be a conflict of wills. Within the context of this conflict, you
will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals
within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on assertiveness,
sexual expression, energy and actions.
True Node Trine Neptune:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny of this soul
connection. You will smoothly develop a fated sense of empathy and intuition
together. Within the context of this flow, you will discover the areas
that will easily be developed as individuals within this relationship. These
lessons will be around boundaries, compassion and spirituality.
Black Moon Lilith in 5th or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a soulful connection from the heart. You will be
challenged to allow a deep flow of love to exchange between you, which will
promote desire on a profound level. You need to surrender to being taken
over by Love that may not be appropriate by social standards or customs. This
instinctual expression of desire may express also in the area of creativity
and children too. Unacknowledged desire and needs for love will erupt
within this relationship and need to be honored and accepted when together. You
could see this as a wonderful opportunity to get to know and understand your
deep soulful desires and creative expressions.
True Lilith Square Neptune:
There is a conflict between your subtle, spiritual connection and the deep
emotions and sexuality that are released from being together. You may
find that these more unconscious feelings disturb your boundaries between each
other and need to be accepted and integrated. Repressing these feelings
will only prove disruptive to the relationship and contribute to lack of depth.
True Lilith Trine Mars:
You may take it for granted how easily your energies and actions flow with
the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship. Your
activities and sexual expression integrate smoothly with this level that is
normally unconscious. You are therefore capable of working together on
a profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Trine MC:
This is a significant relationship as the integrity and core of the relationship
flows easily with the deep emotions and sexuality that surface within the relationship.
The roles you share together whether in work, home or family integrate easily
together with this level that is normally unconscious. It is easy to
accept and integrate, so that you are capable of functioning together on a
profound, soulful level.
True Lilith Quincunx True Node:
You will need to be creative with the destined quality to the deep emotional
and sexual dimension that you share. There may be challenges between
this fateful quality and this normally hidden, unconscious level. You
will both value the profound soul connection and are also able to understand
how the past motivates each other responses on that level. Within the
context of this dimension, you will creatively discover the areas that need
to be developed or worked upon as individuals within this relationship. These
lessons will tend to be focused on intimacy, sex and feelings.
Chapter 5: Background
of the Relationship
"My mother
used to say that there are no strangers, only friends you haven't
met yet. She's now in a maximum security twilight home in Australia." Dame
Edna Everage (1934)
"Nobody
sees a flower - really - it is so small it takes time - we
haven't time - and to see takes time, like to have a friend
takes time." Georgia O'Keeffe (1887 - 1986)
"Don't
accept rides from strange men, and remember that all men are
strange." Robin Morgan
We have many
different types of relationships. These days we have
the luxury of being able to be very creative with all our relationships
and can work together to make them suit us as individuals. We
have grown beyond automatically relating from predetermined
roles. This is truly wonderful as it has the great advantage
that we then are challenged to stay conscious whilst we interact
with each other.
It is important in any kind of relationship to have friendship
as the underlying foundation. The origins of the word friend
come from the Old English word "freond" which
meant "to love, to favor" and is related to the Old English word "freo" which
meant "free". This is a clue as to how to make all our relationships
successful, to honor each other"s freedom as individuals and to love each
other. This can be applied to all business and personal relationships
if we want to achieve the highest expression of potential between others.
Jupiter in 4th or 10th house in composite chart:
You are blessed together to the very core of your relationship. This
is a wonderful relationship to expand and grow the structures that you build
together, whether that is home, family or business. You will have a very
positive and enthusiastic take on these things and those around you will benefit
too! This area of your lives will be where you learn and grow the most
from each other and where others will also learn from you too!
Chiron in 3rd
or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship exposes vulnerabilities from past relationship
wounds, as regards thinking and communication. As a result you will focus a lot
of attention to any difficulties that you share in communicating. You
will experience a sense of acceptance and wholeness in this area and much healing.
Those around you will benefit from this acceptance and so together you will
afford a sense of wholeness to them as well.
Uranus in 5th
or 11th house in composite chart:
This relationship is about individual creative expression whether
through love, creative projects, following your heart's desires
or children. You both
will value the freedom to explore your inner child within this relationship. Just
be careful that the disruptive and willful behavior of your "inner children" does
not destroy the mature love that you have for each other. By affording
opportunities for creating this relationship to suit both your individual needs
for freedom and independence as well as the truth of your care for each other
will be a positive expression of this relationship.
Neptune in
3rd or 9th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a very strong intuitive level of communication. You
may find it hard to keep your thoughts to yourself as the permeable membrane
between each other's minds is so strong. In spite of this, it is important
that you practice clear and regular communication to avoid confusion or disappointment. You
both may share a spiritual path together and therefore share your ideas and
conversations on these topics.
Pluto in 6th
or 12th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a fated sense of service that could profoundly
change your lives. There is a need however to be very careful of the inequality
and possibly imbalance of power, that exists within this relationship and not
to misuse power in any way. It will be important to focus your attention
on the love you share, rather than resort to control or manipulation of each
other, or those around you. You can receive profound healing through
this relationship and so it is important to empower each other. Of course
there are some relationships where we are brought together to help and empower
each other, and this would be a positive manifestation.
Jupiter Square
Pluto:
Within this relationship there may be great obstacles to change
due to a lack of empowerment. You are both challenged to do great things together without
driving each other too hard, or disempowering yourselves. It is always
important to connect with how you care about each other and those around you
rather than resorting to manipulative or controlling behavior.
Ceres in 2nd
or 8th house in composite chart:
This is a relationship where you will experience a wonderful
sense of care as regards your sense of trust and security. There is a real sense of
abundance as regards your physical security and financial investments and also
on a deep psychological level. You are able to care for each other sexually
and also in the midst of any changes in the relationship. However you
will also experience an extreme sense of loss and devastation in these areas,
if there is any threat to the relationship. Then you will experience
the opposite of extreme insecurity and desolation.
Juno in 4th
or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship has strong roles in as you have come together
to build a structure whether home, family or business. You will quickly identify
you have work to do together and what your roles are within that purpose. The
relationship may be public property in some way. You need to consciously
bring some relaxation and spontaneity to this, as no one can sustain a role
for long without some relaxation. Occasionally it would be good to "let
your hair down" and pursue other interests outside of the partnership
- structures are nothing without heart and life inside! It is important not
to resort to game playing and deception. It is human nature to "want
to have it all", much better to be honest and build this into your roles
together.
Vesta in 4th
or 10th house in composite chart:
This relationship has a strong focus on working to build a
structure together whether home, family or business. Together you have the capacity for
a sense of devotion and hard work in achieving your goals. You will be
able to create a sense of home and warmth whatever you build together and so
too with a business. There may be a sense of support from the past or
family or your roots. Be careful not to distract yourselves with work
and service when matters of the heart may need to be addressed with love and/or
passion.
Psyche in 2nd
or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on spiritually integrating security
and trust within your love and sexual relationship. Any vulnerable issues around
trust and safety that surface will be brought to consciousness. Within
this relationship you have real sensitivity towards each other in this regard
and a potential of psychic integration of security challenges you face individually. There
is a great sense of meaning in being together that feeds your soul on a higher
level.
Sappho in 3rd
or 9th house in composite chart:
You like to talk and think about your passionate romantic and
sexual attraction and the deep value you have for each other. You may also become involved
in speaking, writing, lecturing, publishing or media work with the focus of
preparing others for formalizing relationships through marriage or some other
official bond. The bond between you is the focus of most of your thinking
and writing, which can be poetic, but definitely creative.
Eros in 2nd
or 8th house in composite chart:
You feel intensely drawn together sexually and will focus on
establishing security and trust together. You are drawn together to indulge in erotic tastes
and focus on what turns each other on sexually. The very passion
in the relationship is what your security is based so this means that you will
be able to sustain and rely on this in the relationship. You will build
stability also on your sexual compatibility.
Cupido in 2nd
or 8th house in composite chart:
This relationship is focused on building trust and security
on the physical attraction and chemistry that you have together. You both value each
other's physical beauty and this is an important factor in your sexual relationship. Your
security is built on your attractiveness as a couple. You need to be
careful to not be caught too much in the superficial look of the relationship. It
is also important to attend to the heart of your love and care for each other.
Amor in 4th
or 10th house in composite chart:
Your ideal love supports you both in building a core life structure
together, whether home, family or business. Love is the very integrity that glues
you together. The differences that show up in the roles you share, will
help you identify your boundaries. It is important to both of you that
your structure really shows the unconditional love that you share. Your
family, past or genetics may be part of the foundation of your love.
Aphrodite in
5th or 11th house in composite chart:
You have been brought together for your heart's fulfillment
through the fated love you share. There is also a focus on art and beauty in your creativity,
children, entertainment, fun and sports that you share together. You
initially felt drawn strongly together in a destined way. There is a
special magic that your love brings to all these areas and any creative work
that you are involved together will have a destined quality to it. This
could certainly be a "great love" experience.
Ceres Trine
Jupiter:
You easily find the world a better place when you are together
as you are able to care and support each other within this
serious relationship. You
are easily inspired and enthused about the philosophical basis of nurture within
the relationship. The sense of abundance and prosperity (whether materially
or spiritually) that this relationship evokes does not go overboard and sits
comfortably with both of you.
Juno Sextile
Sun:
You have real opportunities to integrate the contract or bond
you share, whether marriage or business and the purpose of
being together. You can combine
your mission easily with your contract. Others may somehow be involved
in this bond you share. Whichever person appears to be the more active
partner may identify much more with the possibilities within your purpose,
when you are together.
Juno Sextile
Mercury:
Together you have great opportunities for harmony in your thinking
and communicating within the contract or bond you share, whether
marriage or business. You
can easily integrate your ideas and talk with this contract with just a little
attention. Friends may be integral in assisting you both to experience
this fulfillment of communication together.
Vesta Conjunct
True Node:
You will feel fatefully drawn into this destined relationship
which has a strong work ethic which you will embrace. You both may tend to overcompensate
for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work,
healing and creative sacrifice. However this is where fate lies within
the relationship and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this
focus. You can creatively configure this strong sense of service and
healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can
be almost a tantric experience of wholeness. Within the context of this
destined relationship, you will discover the areas that need to be developed
or worked upon as individuals together. These lessons will tend to be
focused on work, creative service, healing and sexual expression.
Vesta Trine
Sun:
You experience a lot of harmony together as your strong work
ethic flows easily with the purpose of being together. You may both tend to overcompensate
for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work,
healing and creative sacrifice. However the mission in the relationship
flows easily and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this focus. You
can also easily creatively integrate this strong sense of service and healing
within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that it can be almost
a tantric experience of wholeness. Whichever person appears to be the
more active partner may identify much more with this easy mission of creative
service, when you are together.
Vesta Trine
Mercury:
You experience a lot of harmony together as your strong work
ethic flows easily with how you think and communicate. You may both tend to overcompensate
for any difficulties within the relationship by throwing yourselves into work,
healing and creative sacrifice. However your ideas and communication
styles flow easily and so does not imply conflict between you as regards this
focus. There is also a creative flow of your strong sense of service
and healing within the context of the sexual relationship as well, so that
it can be almost a tantric experience of wholeness.
Psyche Conjunct
Mars:
This is a real soul union in which your energy and sexual expression
support you both in personal development within the relationship. Through your
sexual relationship, activities and work you are able to find who you are as
individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's eyes. You are actively
involved with each other on your journey to wholeness. You are very connected
to each other psychologically and the relationship affords you transformation
and healing.
Psyche Sextile
Jupiter:
You can see opportunities for this soul union which encompasses
personal development and your sense of meaning together. Others may offer you opportunities
to find who you are as individuals by looking in the mirror of each other's
eyes. You also have the potential to connect with each other psychologically
and the relationship can afford you transformation and healing.
Sappho Conjunct
Neptune:
In this relationship you experience a sense of comradeship,
where you share similar values in beauty and the arts in your
intuitive, subtle connection.
You aim for refinement as regard your deeper more unconscious feelings and
your sexual expression. By elevating these areas through the arts and
ideas you will experience acceptance, and therefore healing.
Sappho Trine
True Node:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny
of the comradeship you share with similar values in beauty
and the arts. Refinement flows as regard
deeper more unconscious feelings and your sexual expression. You can
easily elevate these areas through the arts and ideas and will be accepting
of each other so that the relationship is healing. Within the context
of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily be developed as
individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be around bonding,
sexuality and aesthetics.
Sappho Sextile
Saturn:
There are real opportunities in this relationship to experience
comradeship, where you share similar values in beauty and the
arts as part of your commitment
together. You need to bring refinement to deeper more unconscious feelings
and your sexual expression. You also have opportunities to elevate these
areas through the arts and ideas and this will provide much healing within
the relationship. Those around you may provide support in this.
Eros Opposition
Sun:
This is a profound meeting where the power of this great Love
will be polarized with the purpose of being together. You are touched and shaped deeply
by this erotic love for each other but at times may find it challenging to
integrate the relationship goals. You are both challenged to love your vulnerabilities
and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love. Whichever person
appears to be the more active partner may identify much more with this polarized
erotic love, when you are together.
Eros Opposition
Mercury:
This is a profound meeting where the power of this great Love
will be polarized with your thinking and communicating. You
are touched and shaped deeply by this erotic love for each
other but at times may find it challenging to
integrate your ideas and conversations. You are both challenged to love your
vulnerabilities and find a sense of meaning in surrendering to Love.
Eros Sextile
True Node:
It is easy to surrender to this great Love in this very destined
relationship! Your
sense of fate together flows smoothly as you are touched and shaped deeply
by this erotic connection. You can easily love your vulnerabilities and
find a sense of meaning in surrendering to this Love.
Cupido Conjunct
Sun:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level
because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each other
that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral to the purpose
of being together. As a result this promotes desire and can turn each
other on sexually too. Whichever person appears to be the more active partner
may identify much more with this attractive purpose, when you are together.
Cupido Conjunct
Mercury:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level
because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each other
that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral how you think
and communicate together. As a result you turn each other on sexually
too.
Cupido Conjunct
Neptune:
You are strongly drawn together from a deep unconscious level
because you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. You find a beauty in each other
that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and this is integral to the intuitive,
subtle connection you share together. As a result you turn each other
on sexually too.
Cupido Trine
True Node:
You may take it for granted how easily you integrate the destiny
of your attraction for each other. This attraction flows from a deep unconscious level because
you complement each other in attractiveness and beauty. It is easy to
find a beauty in each other as that reflects a hidden beauty in yourself and
this is pivotal to the sense of fatefulness together. As a result this
promotes desire and turns each other on sexually too. Within the context
of this flow, you will discover the areas that will easily be developed as
individuals within this relationship. These lessons will be related to
the mirror of each other's attractiveness.
Amor Conjunct
True Node:
This fateful relationship embodies a destined, perfected love,
which may be difficult to experience in reality, in your destiny
together. You can
creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction
in this relationship. Both of you can identify the boundaries between you and
honor and love each other as a result. Within the context of this love,
you will discover the areas that need to be developed or worked upon as individuals
within this relationship. These lessons will tend to be focused on bringing
this love to reality.
Amor Square
Mars:
You have difficulty combining your destined, perfected love,
which may be difficult to experience in reality with your energies
and sexual expression together. You
love each other purely but there seems to be inherent differences in your activities
and sexuality. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both identifying
the boundaries between you and honoring and loving each other and work and
sex so that difficulties will be minimized. At times you may find it
challenging to integrate the more hidden unconscious dimensions of your desire
and attraction.
Amor Trine
Neptune:
This relationship flows easily with your destined, perfected
love, which may be difficult to experience in reality with
the intuitive, subtle connection
together. You can easily and creatively incorporate more hidden unconscious
dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship. Within the ease between
you, both of you can identify your boundaries and honor and love each other
as a result.
Amor Sextile
Saturn:
Those around you will offer you opportunities to combine your
destined sense of perfect love, which may be difficult to experience
in reality, with the
commitment you share together. You have possibilities of creatively incorporating
more hidden unconscious dimensions of desire and attraction in this relationship.
With the ease between you, both of you have opportunities of identifying your
boundaries so that you honor and love each other.
Aphrodite Square
Neptune:
You have difficulty combining your "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship
together with the subtle, intuitive connection together. You are destined
to be connected but there seems to be inherent differences in your boundary
issues. Be careful to pay attention to balancing both your fated relationship
and honoring each other's boundaries so that difficulties will be minimized. You
are challenged to be creative in developing this relationship in its own mold
and to benefit from the depth and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Trine
Jupiter:
There is a flow to this "bolt out of the blue" fated relationship
and figures largely in your sense of meaning together. You are creative
in developing this relationship in its own mold and benefit from the depth
and profundity that it offers.
Aphrodite Sextile
MC:
This is a significant relationship and has a real flow to its "bolt out
of the blue" fated quality which is expressed easily in home, family or
business you are building together. You are creative in developing this
relationship in its own mold and benefit from the depth and profundity that
it offers.
Aphrodite Sextile
Mars:
Those around you will offer you real opportunities for this "bolt out
of the blue" fated relationship to figure largely in your energies and
sexual expression together. You have possibilities to be creative in
developing this relationship in its own mold and benefit from the depth and
profundity that it offers.
Chapter 6: Summary
"
Just because you love someone doesn't mean you have to be involved
with them. Love is not a bandage to cover wounds." Hugh
Elliott, Standing Room Only weblog, February 16, 2004
"The conception of two people living together for twenty-five
years without having a cross word suggests a lack of spirit
only to be admired in sheep." Alan Patrick Herbert
"Why is it so hard to find a soulmate? Because most of
us are actually searching for egomates instead. We place the
most limited and unloving aspect of our minds in charge of
our search for love, and then wonder why we aren't succeeding.
To the degree that we identify with this false sense of self,
and operate on the basis of its limited point of view, we aren't
looking for someone to love so much as recruiting fellow actors
to take on supporting roles in a favorite melodrama." Carolyn
Godschild Miller "Soulmates: Following Inner Guidance
to the Relationship of Your Dreams."
Relationships
can be challenging & sometimes seem more
trouble than they are worth. We are challenged to live our
best life & to be the best that we can be! These days going
down the relationship path, consciously, can be more profound & enlightening
than getting thyself into a nunnery! We see each other through
the mirror & reflection in each other's eyes, of who we
are & what we are doing or not doing! We cannot hide or
delude ourselves when we live in the light of our partner's
eyes.
So if
we choose to take this path in life we are subject to all
the gifts & joys of sharing, companionship, care & love
that relating can bring. We are also brought more fully into
conscious attention to our own souls & personal development.
We honor & respect each other's boundaries & separation
so that we can unite with each other in love & compassion.
On a bigger
scale the microcosm of our personal & business
relationships are the seed of our community, our country & our
planet. We have all been brought together under the banner
of humanity & our spiritual challenge is learning to live
with ourselves firstly & then others in a harmonious, peaceful & respectful
way! When seen from this perspective, whatever needs to be
addressed in our immediate relationships, will provide a good
basis for a better planet!
May these reflections help serve that purpose!
Romantic and Sexual Attraction Medium Score (72):
This relationship
has a reasonable level of romantic & sexual
attraction & that means that you would enjoy being together.
This is a good foundation for any kind of relationship that
you wish to develop together
Good Communication, Problem Solving Medium Score (73):
This relationship
has a good conduit of communication. At times of stress this
may require work & consciousness.
It is important to make sure that you both have a regular time & place
to connect & communicate so that the relationship never
has to suffer due to lack of information.
Success & High
Achievement Medium Score (71):
This relationship
gives a positive experience of success both spiritually & materially. This experience may not be consistent
but by applying a positive focus & working hard, you can
do well together.
Longevity & Commitment
High Score (133):
This relationship
has an excellent ability to go the distance & be
a stable foundation for both of you. You can rely on each other & will
easily be able to face challenges or difficulties. In fact
these will only increase your commitment.
Sense
of Fate & Destiny
Together High Score (133):
There
is an incredibly powerful pull, possibly a compulsion, to
be together that
often feels stronger than your own individual
personal needs. You may also experience a strong sense of familiarity
even when you initially meet. You will learn profound & life
changing lessons together. It probably feels fated to be together,
so ready or not you will be propelled into big changes together.
This may be a soul mate relationship!
Challenges & Weaknesses
High Score (106):
There
are many challenges in this relationship & it would
bode you well to pay a lot of attention to them. If one or
both of you feel trapped, ignored, dissatisfied, manipulated,
disillusioned or disappointed then you will need to consciously
address these issues. If you want this relationship to work
it would be easier & quicker to seek professional assistance
from a therapist, counselor or coach.
"
Love is the most difficult and dangerous form of courage. Courage
is the most desperate, admirable, and noble kind of love." Delmore
Schwartz